what to do, what to do, what to do …
I am not sure at the moment I am a friend of the addict but... here I am.
I am a recovering addict married to what once was a recovering addict who has gone out and got loaded many times now. It started about six months ago. I have yelled, kicked, screamed, tossed the stuff out, brought the stuff back in, blah, blah, blah.
I have attend a few Naranon meetings and will continue to go but... haven't really gotten any advice (is that the advice, they don't give any?). I have let him use at home, I have told him not to come home when using. I don't know what to do with him.
Do I leave him in the house? or is that killing him?
Do I kick him out of the house and let him kill him?
He hasn't stolen anything or not brought the pay check home, he isn't causing chaos (except with me) my kids don't know he has been getting loaded (YET), he says he wants to get clean but doesn't do what he needs to do to get clean. I am sick of it, over and over and over and there doesn't look like there is an end in sight.
What to do?
I am a recovering addict married to what once was a recovering addict who has gone out and got loaded many times now. It started about six months ago. I have yelled, kicked, screamed, tossed the stuff out, brought the stuff back in, blah, blah, blah.
I have attend a few Naranon meetings and will continue to go but... haven't really gotten any advice (is that the advice, they don't give any?). I have let him use at home, I have told him not to come home when using. I don't know what to do with him.
Do I leave him in the house? or is that killing him?
Do I kick him out of the house and let him kill him?
He hasn't stolen anything or not brought the pay check home, he isn't causing chaos (except with me) my kids don't know he has been getting loaded (YET), he says he wants to get clean but doesn't do what he needs to do to get clean. I am sick of it, over and over and over and there doesn't look like there is an end in sight.
What to do?
