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My abf's mother called me last night. abf had brought his son to her house for the day so he could play with her youngest son (they are the same age). She was looking for abf because he took money from her wallet. She left her purse on the table and he got into at some point. His father also said they are missing a compressor from their shed. She asked me to call a friend that my abf said he was going to see while he was in town. I did and I already knew that the friend works on sundays and that he also wasn't speaking to my abf after he had stolen from me. (he is one of my good friends as well) So I let her know that he lied about seeing the friend. Abf had told me he was on the way to a meeting after he dropped off his son. She told me to watch out cause of the money, ect. and most likely he wasn't going to the meeting. So I give him a call and it goes right to voicemail, then I call again and I can tell he is on the other line with someone. So I text him and tell him we need to talk, answer the phone. I get no reply. then finally he says he's at the meeting, can't answer the phone. I took a chance and texted him back saying I know your not at the meeting because I am here and your not. Well, it busted him because he didn't respond for about 15 minutes. Comes up with some crazy story about how a drug dealer he owes money to was at his parents house threating to slash all the tires on the car (2 new ones I just bought a month ago!) if he didn't pay him. So I guess the guy left (yeah right?!) and Abf went inside to find some $. (good thing mom only had $20 in her wallet) so we get into a huge fight about all of this last night. I tell him I want him out. He needs to return the car and get his stuff. I packed it for him. He says he is now at the meeting (the time table doesn't match up for me cause I know how long it should have taken him) I tell him it's over, get out ect. His parents and my parents want me to kick him out. He comes home and I tell him he can sleep on the couch and that I will drop him off at the train in the am before work.

So this morning I wake him up. He had 2 interviews today to go to but I wanted him gone. I can't stand it anymore. He fights with me, gets in the shower and continues to beg me to let him go to his interviews, sticking to the story about the drug dealer is why he stole from his mom. I told him he should have called the police but he claims you can't do that and that the dealer would go back to his parents and slash their tires and stuff. I don't believe him. I remember a few of you telling me actions speak louder than words. so I go outside and start my car, grab his backs and put them on the deck and take the keys to the other car (both in my name) and put them in my purse and bring it to my car. I go back into the house and we fight some more, mostly me telling him to get out. so then he goes outside and I think he's gonna take my car (keys are in it and its running) so I chase him down the stairs and open passenger side but he grabs my bag, gets his keys and tries to take the other car. I blocked the drivers side and told him he wasn't going to his interviews and he was yelling at me. he went to the passenger side and I opened the door and sat in the drivers seat so he couldn't leave. I tried to call the police but he grabbed my phone from me so now he had the phone and the keys. i tired yelling to the guy waiting at the bus stop with his kids but he ignored me. so he came closer and I jumped out and kicked him, got my phone but he pushed me out of the way and jumped into the car and I tried to stop him by blocking the door so he couldn't shut it. I was half in the car so he started to drive away and he pushed me out of the car and took off.

I don't know what to do. He has court on wednesday and wants to stay at the house. I don't want him there. should I just let him stay to find out his fate on wednesday? I can't believe we got into this huge fight like this. I hit him and kicked him, he hit me back or anything. I feel like maybe i should go to the police and get a restraining order on him so that when he does come home from his interviews tonight they can just make him go away and leave me alone, but then he will be homeless and most likely not make it to court on wednesday. :wtf2:skillet

Written by Alaia

November 3rd, 2008 at 1:04 pm

Insanity

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I just have to get this out.

My AH woke me up at 1:00am pounding on my bedroom door yelling that he was bleeding. I open the door to see blood all over him and his ear half-way torn off. He's got some crazy story about being at a party and getting into a crash on the way home -- even though I know he was home all night. He was and is delusional. Rushed to the ER. The ear, nose, & throat specialist was able to reattach the ear. The whole time he is saying things that don't make sense and talking to people who aren't even around. He must have taken something but I don't know what -- I've never seen him like this before. He did tell me yesterday he bought pills from a guy at work. But this is just too crazy. One doctor wanted to keep him for observation but the primary doc gave him something to calm him down and sent us home. There is blood all over the house. He doesn't remember what happened. This is just so sad.

So glad SR is here.

Written by itisatruth

September 9th, 2008 at 5:35 am