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Friday nite my spouse and I were sleeping. My spouse heard the electronic lock opening to the front door. By the time my husband got dressed and downstairs AS was putting our vehicle keys back on the table. Turns out his ID was in our vehicle ( that is the truth). He claimed he needed it to get in to a bar at 12:30 am. My spouse told him to get out, he had some kid with him waiting outside. Both were pretty high. We told him he wasnt coming in our house and both get going. AS said he tried to call the house but no answer so he took it upon himself just to show up. After he left it dawned on me I always lock my purse and cheque book in the vehicle. Just a habit even though he no longer lives in our home. I panicked and thought my bank card was missing. I drove around like a maniac and found him sitting outside the closest bar. There was a police car sitting in the parking lot. I opened the truck window and started yelling Ive been robbed. My son nearly had a heart attack he came over to the vehicle and said "mom look in your purse again it must be there" it was ,I felt like a fool.
Saturday I am out shopping forgot about the cheque book, realized it was there lo and behold I look two missing cheques. I put stop payments on them.
Yesterday they were cashed through my account and the money was put back in. Some kid filled out the cheques and signed the back, but it AS signature on the front. Unbelievable he has now graduated to ripping me off at my home while Im in bed. I am going to the police station tonite to press charges, have to buy a new lock and get a restraing order.
He has done so much, it never ceases to amaze me what they will do for money. The look of him sitting on that bench will be forever embedded in my mind. Skinny, dilated eyes, not a care in the world. In the meantime he had my cheques in his pocket, and I never thought of that. They have a way of making you think your crazy. I must have looked like a lunatic in my pjamas yelling out the window. He called today and I confronted him of course he didnt do it. A comnpulsive liar, I dont think he knows the difference between truth and a lie. I truly hope this time he goes to jail. I know it will not help him in his recovery but atleast I know he wont be dead somewhere. The nerve to rip me off in the middle of the nite. Actually makes me very nervous. Also his drug addict friends he has met down town know where I live. I truly am waiting to go to work one day and come home and our house has been ransacked. Im sorry this is so long . Has anyone else had this happen?

hello eveyone, would appreciate feedback on the following,the treaturer in one of our homegroups took the money of the 7 th tradition and went to use herione with it, he is now in a relapse, and started manipulations, and excuses that he is out of town, we spoke to him that we need the money to pay rent for the room but in vain. i met him yesterday while i was on the pool in my club, he had justed came out of the mens room, loaded, wasted, and he was in no state of mind.for me to open the issue with him he is an agressive character, and i see no reaosn to get into a fist fight, or try to force the money out of him... should we talk to his sponsor, while on the other hand,one of the fellows talked to him and said this is god's money, and not his to do as he pleases.and still no money back.
thanks for the feedback. i guess this is dealing with lifes terms.do we put the blame on the room secretary......
n.b the room will be closed due to not paying the rent, we announced that we neede fellows to attend that specific meeting, and put extra money to cover the loss, but still the response was low....

thankyou and god bless